Jule's the Child Raised?? Never always learning.

My kids are out of the house now and all productive citizen's. No one is in jail and they all have homes and jobs. They have given me 8 wonderful grand kids that I think are great. The bum who stuck a fork in it had a wondering eye and a problem with the drink so he got the boot or should I say I ran as fast as I could after 19 years of marriage. There are a lot of great memories from earlier times when I was still naive and believing all people were innately good. About the cheating, he had my best friends that we hung with and even my brother new of his extra girls. I now have not had any contact with all of those people since I found out the depth of all of their deception. My brother and me are still close and I have forgiven him but threatened to beat him with a big stick if it ever happens again. I have no ill will against anyone from that time and am a firm believer in karma and what goes around comes around. I also have come to the conclusion that while choosing this path for my life at seventeen, the growth of my soul was enormous for taking the road of not being vendictive through it all and still believing there is good in everyone of us. It has taken me years to forgive my ex who had someone move in the day I moved out. I hope for his happiness and everyone Else's. I know I am happier and free of the past life and am thankful for the person it has helped me grow into. If it wasn't for all of these events, I wouldn't have met my soul mate, lover, and best friend. May the white light surround and protect us all throughout the day.